Rev Patti "The F Word"

Betrayal blindsides us and attacks the illusion that we are in control of our lives. And as long as we hold onto the story of that betrayal, we will continue to feel angry and hurt.
Forgiveness does not release the other person for their part in the situation, it does not condone their behavior- it allows us to release it so we can be free to live without that story. It has nothing to do with the other person.