Peter Bolland - “Fathering Energy”

The 5 Qualities of Inner Fathering are Courage, Quietude, Consistency, Competence and Kindness.
It takes courage to be loving and compassionate. quietude allows us to discover solutions in the silence, competence/ doingness- the opposite of helplessness, kindness is nurturing the best in others.
Are these qualities latent and hidden in our daily practice of life? Or do we embody them?